My guest today blew my mind at many points in this interview, and I look forward to you hearing these moments.
Jason Matthews is here to talk about two topics: The first part of our discussion is around men and women and how we interact with each other and our peers. Jason and I discuss a few areas, such as distrust and competition of needs.
The second part of our discussion is around Human Design and what it means, and then we discuss some of the results of my Human Design reading I had with Jason earlier this year. It is fascinating what he told me. So many moments helped me understand exactly why certain things have been more difficult for me, and I know you will relate to this topic for sure!
Here are three reasons why you should listen to the complete Episode:
Who is Jason Matthews
Masculine and feminine energy
Toxic masculinity in men
Toxic competence in women
Manifesting the best version of yourself
Competition of needs
Focusing on your orientation
Competition of needs destroys relationships
Our needs are emotional
Three steps of effective communication
My behavioral type
My behavioral lines
My behavioral lines
The collision of my behavioral lines:
Insights gained from my Human Design
What Jason is grateful for
3 Powerful Quotes from this Episode
18:38 – “So if, if I realized that you have a need, and I can help in some way, satisfy that need, and I’m aware that that dynamic exists, it’s my job, it becomes my responsibility. So what is it that you need, and then to listen to you, regardless of whether I can fulfill that need or not? The act of listening to you is going to make you feel appreciated? Absolutely. It’s going to make you feel like you are important, that you have a voice. And because of that, you are going to naturally want to listen to what my needs are. Just the fact that I listened to you first. And this applies to romantic relationships, business relationships, friendships, even people who are in a mastermind who are working towards a common goal”.
27:12 – “Because by them being the best version of themselves, they become a very powerful leader that other people want to follow, that other people want to know more about, that become the most interesting person in a room without even needing a beer commercial. And they are able to create the kind of dynamic with their peers, with women, whether it be in a relationship, whether it be in a business, whether it be in a social setting, they create the kind of dynamic where other people find them so interesting, because they have shown that they are interested in others, because they are comfortable with the built their ability to be compassionate, while still acting deliberately”.
48:09 – “So this is something that I actually use, when I am helping a person, really understand who they are, whether it be a man or a woman, regardless of the circumstances when I am talking to them, helping them create the kind of relationships that are going to help them get to their goals, find out what it is that they need, I use human design, because it helps a person understand where they are their strongest, and what they need, to who they need to connect with in order to show up the things they’re more deficient in. It also helps in understanding what creates tension and what actually helps to release tension”.
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