Ever had a “coincidence” so perfectly timed that it made you stop in your tracks? Like hearing a song on the radio that’s tied to someone you’ve lost, or seeing something only they would appreciate? I used to brush those things off as “just a coincidence” all the time. But my friend, and psychic medium Marliana Alisemon, both know, many times these are messages from our loved ones.
In this episode, Marliana and I dive into the profound impact these signs can have, especially on the grief journey. We talk about how loved ones are always finding ways to connect, nudge us, and—yes—sometimes even joke with us from beyond. Here are a few of the insights we explored:
1. Trust the “Coincidences”
When a loved one is trying to send a message, they don’t exactly text or call us (although wouldn’t that be handy?). Instead, they use the tools they can—songs, symbols, or even scents. Marliana taught me to trust those moments that make you go, “Okay, that’s a little too perfect to be random.” The idea that our loved ones are finding little ways to connect? It’s downright comforting.
2. Boundaries Aren’t Just for the Living
Did you know you can set boundaries with the spirit world? Marliana, who has quite the experience with persistent spirits, reminded us that just like in our day-to-day lives, boundaries in the spiritual realm are a must. And hey, this isn’t just for psychic mediums—if you’ve ever felt spiritually overwhelmed, it’s okay to say, “Not right now, thanks!”
3. Vulnerability is a Superpower
Let’s be real—grief isn’t pretty. It’s messy, unpredictable, and makes you cry at random moments. But that’s okay! In fact, feeling all the feels is what brings us closer to healing. In our chat, Marliana and I both shared our “ugly cry” moments (yes, it’s now a certified healing technique). Allowing ourselves to be vulnerable connects us not only to our loved ones but to each other.
4. Healing Goes Both Ways
One thing that surprised me? Sometimes, the messages that come through from the other side aren’t just for us; they’re for them too. Spirits might reach out to apologize, offer closure, or even pass along wisdom to help break generational cycles. It’s a beautiful reminder that healing is a shared journey.
5. Laughter is Part of the Healing Process
Grief doesn’t mean we have to live in darkness. In fact, laughter brings light back into our lives. This episode reminded me that our loved ones are always here for the journey—encouraging us, joking with us, and celebrating every step we take toward healing. Humor keeps us grounded, even on the hardest days.
Notable Quote from Marliana:
“Grief isn’t linear; it’s messy and unpredictable. The trick is to hold yourself gently and trust that even in the darkest moments, you’re not alone.”
If you’ve been searching for ways to connect with your loved ones or simply need a dose of healing and humor, I encourage you to check out this episode. You’re not alone in your journey, and sometimes the signs you need are right in front of you. 💖
Listen now, share a laugh (or a tear), and remember—our connections, both here and beyond, make life beautifully messy and worth every second.
Love Tiff xx
